SHARED GROUND

Values worth carrying forward.

Life

Recognition of human dignity and worth.

Love

Concern for family, community, country, and one another.

Learning

Curiosity, evidence, education, and willingness to reconsider.

Liberty

Freedom and the enduring duty to pass down the legacy of liberty to our posterity.

Character

Your core qualities; who you are when no one is watching.

Honor

Treating people with the respect and dignity you expect.

Integrity

Aligning your behavior with your core beliefs.

RESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION

How to disagree without becoming enemies.

Civil conversation does not require either person to abandon their beliefs. The primary goal should be to understand the other person accurately, to explain your own view thoughtfully, and to end the conversation with respect for our freedom to think, speak, and believe differently.

1. Begin with curiosity.Ask what experiences or values helped shape the other person's view.
2. Listen to understand.Make sure you understand the other person before responding.
3. Speak for yourself.Speak from your own experience and avoid assigning labels to the other person.
4. Find the point of agreement.Even when conclusions differ, identify a value or goal you share.
5. End with respect.You do not have to change anyone's mind. Conversations can end with recognition of why you disagree.

American Civic Bridge-Building Organizations

Dedicated to reducing polarization, fostering dialogue, and restoring social trust.

Braver Angels Listen First Project Living Room Conversations

Independent educational resources are provided for convenience. LAVA-America is not affiliated with, sponsored by, or endorsed by these organizations.